From: Betty Lue Lieber <bettylue@reunionministries.org>
Subject: Loving Relationships Workshop notes if you want them🥰
Date: May 25, 2026 at 7:42:19 AM PDT
To: Betty Lue Lieber <bettylue@reunionministries.org>

Keys to Loving Relationships:
1. Love Yourself ............................. Discover & Appreciate You
2. Receive & Give Love ................. Learn to value yourself & others
3. Heal blocks to Loving ................ Open to See things differently
4. Connect and Communicate ....... Listen to learn and respond with Love
5. Co-create and Celebrate............ Create Successful Relationships

What are Loving Relationships?
What is Love?
What Are Relationships?
All relationships are for the purpose of healing are fears, mistakes, lack of Love!
Every relationship is for teaching and learning how to Love, how to value, How to appreciate.
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Do You want Love?
Do you really want Loving Relationships?
What are they?
How do you create Loving Relationships?
1. Learn to give what you want to have.
2. Value all you are giving.
3. Stop denying yourself the Love you want.

Love  YourSelf
When you are looking for Love, you are seeking what you already have within you.
When you are looking for loving relationships, You will find love where you are loving.
What you are wanting to get, you need to Love what you already.
What interferes with what you want is what you ignore, deny, criticize, resist, denigrate and repel.
What creates what you want is what you bless, value, appreciate, enjoy, celebrate and wholeheartedly Love.

Your Primary Relationship is with Love It Self.
How do you Love?
Do you love you?
Do you love what you have?
Do you love the air you breathe, the food you eat, the home you live in?
Do you love your body, your thoughts, your creations, the people in your life?
How you do show your love?
Do you take care of your life, your home, your relationships, your mind and body?
How can you receive Love, if you don’t Love You?
How can you know what Love is, if you don’t take time to Love what you have?
How can You value Love, when you don’t value yourself?

Take stock of what you value.
Pay attention to how you value and care for what is important to you.
Notice where you are taking you and your life for granted.
Forgive all the areas where you are depleting your Self Love with lack of appreciation.
Create a strategy of honest Care for everything and everyone you value.
Daily assess valuing all you value. Loving all you Love. Appreciating all you have.

Where you focus your thoughts words and behavior, you create!!
Focus 100% on what you Value, what feels Good, what is Important to you.
You will attract more of what you Value, what feels Good and what is Important to you.
Your life is a mirror of your Loving Relationship with yourself.

Heal Blocks to Love:
What are your fears, your blocks to Love?
When there is a block or problem or upset…….
First. LEARN. "The real reason I am upset is?"
Sit and write your feelings and thoughts, your fears and concerns.
Dump and flush.
Ask yourself “What do I really want?"
Then, BE HELPFUL (not hurtful)
What can I choose to create what I want?
First, Love mySelf.  Who I am, what I have, and how I live my life.

Giving Love ( You cannot give what your don’t have.)
Take impeccable care of what you have. People and things!
Bless, prayer, show gratitude for all you value.
Easily forgive, delete, erase and let go of what has no value or purpose.
Ensure every loving relationship with your consistent appreciation.
Tiny words, thoughts, gestures, gifts, positive feelings, spending time, money and energy.  
Value clarification! Check and make sure you actually are valuing what you value.
Stop expecting return from others who are depleted!

Life is safe, fun and easy when you are living/giving on purpose with what you value.
Where you feel safe, in alignment, at peace …You flow love, gratitude, kindness, respect.
Where you have fear, you feel separate, judgment, conflict and anxious.

Connection and Communication
Connection =  two currents creating a smooth working flow. No sparks. Simple flow.
Communication = coming together unified.  Accepting and honoring difference.
Valuing learning from one another.
Recognizing everyone is a teacher.
Wanting peace and harmony, equality and creative teamwork!